Communication in a family is very important. One of the best
ways to have open communication is to have weekly family council. It is
important that you have are making an agenda throughout the week. That way
there is nothing that is forgotten. One of the best ways is to post it
somewhere where all of the family members have access to it. The next step is
to make sure that you show love and appreciation for each other. This
encourages open communication with one another. Everyone in the family knows
that they are cared for and have that there opinion has value. The next step is
to make sure that you have an opening prayer. This invites the spirit and helps
you know what the lords will is. Next is to start the discussion. It is
important that everyone comes to a consensus, before a decision is finalized.
Next you need to say a closing prayer so that you can express gratitude. Last
is to have some way that we can all become better friends. This can be done
through lots of ways like refreshments.
Saturday, November 23, 2013
Thursday, November 21, 2013
Family Crisis
In this week of family relations we learned about family
crisis and family stress. Every family at some point will face family crisis
and family stressors. It is not so important what the crisis and stress is, but
rather who we react to the family stress or crisis. In a family crisis there is
something that is called the abc/e model. A is the actual event. B is the both
of their resources. C is their cognition. X is the total experience. The
actual event isn't as big of a deal. Main this is because there is nothing that
you can do about it. With resources the most important thing with is not what resources
that they have, but how they use their resources. Cognition is how they are
metal handling the situation. The most important thing with x is that at the
end they are pulling together. Crisis can actual have a way of pulling a couple
together.
Friday, November 8, 2013
Not Yet
Now day’s sexual intimacy is such an interesting subject.
There are many good people that would avoid the topic at all cost and then
there are others that can seem to talk about it enough. This has made it very
confusing for some teenagers. The media seems to shove try and shove sex down
their throats every chance that they get. Many good parents have some great concern
about this. So to combat this message that everyone should be having sex they
send many warns to their teenagers about all of the dangers of sex. The problem
with this is many of teenage become sacred of sex. They think that it is dirt
and if they do it they too will become dirt. This becomes a problem when the teenagers
get married and now it is okay. They have lots of martial problem because they don’t
want to be dirty people. We need to be more careful about how we teach are
teens. We need to teach them not yet instead of no.
Marriages vs Weddings
This week in Family Relations we learned about transitioning
into marriage. I find it interesting that people will spend many hours and lot
of money on their wedding and then once they are married they think that
everything is down and that they know longer need to spend time or money on their
marriage, I think that if people but in the same about of effort into their
marriage that they did with their wedding then there would be a big difference
in the rate of divorces. People would know and appreciate their partner. They
wouldn't feel the need to get divorced. If there was a problem the couple would
be putting in enough time to work it out. People need to remember that if they
aren’t putting time and energy into their marriage, then their marriage is
slowly disengaging.
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